How Do We should Love Our Gay Friends

How Do We should Treat Gay Our Friends?

There are five references in the Qur’an which have been cited as referring to gay and lesbian behavior. The two main references to homosexual behavior are:

“We also sent Lut : He said to his people : “Do ye commit lewdness such as no people in creation (ever) committed before you? For ye practice your lusts on men in preference to women: ye are indeed a people transgressing beyond bounds.” Qur’an 7:80-81

Lut is referred to as “Lot” in the Hebrew Scriptures. This passage is an apparent reference to the activities at Sodom and Gamorah. It seems to imply that there was no homosexual behavior before it first appeared in Sodom. This is a uniquely Islamic concept; it does not appear in Jewish or Christian beliefs. The passage also links the sin of Sodom (the reason for its destruction) to homosexuality.

“Would ye really approach men in your lusts rather than women? Nay, ye are a people (grossly) ignorant!  (The Noble Quran, 27:55)”

There is a consensus among Islamic scholars that all humans are naturally heterosexual. People become homosexuals because of their environments. We as Muslims need to state unequivocally and unambiguously that homosexuality is a deviant behavior and that there is not even an iota of doubt that Islam condemns the behavior. Thus stated, we need to clarify, that it does not mean that we hate the homosexual person but rather that we find the behavior abhor able. We want to help with sensitivity and care whoever has these tendencies, or practices such behavior.

On other hand this is not right. Every human should have rights on their own choices. We can not support what is saying in religion. We should deny it. Love is Love. Love can not be happen within in fixed gender system. It also can be happen in different gender too.

We don’t think the pure things can be sin. Love is blind. A man can love a man. They demand each other physically and mentally. If this is pure love ,there won’t be any sin. So we support LGBT.

In Bangladesh sense the scenario should be changed. We should love human being. We should not hate them for their sexual orientation. Every mind, every life should have right to dream on. They should have freedom on their choice of sexual orientation.  The LGBT peoples are so helpless. They are always seeking help from other person but there is none to help them. It is so painful.

Every Muslim I know says that being gay is a choice, which is just not true. I’m attracted to men the same way a straight man is attracted to women, and this was never a conscious choice on my part. It’s like asking a straight man to suddenly start liking men: Is he going to be able to that? No.

I’ve accepted the fact that I’m gay, however it’s now making me question my religion. If Allah forbids homosexuality, then why does he allow people to be born gay? My Imam says that being gay isn’t actually a sin in and of itself, but it is a sin if you perform any homosexual acts. He told me I should just marry a girl, but is that fair to any girl that I marry? Am I meant to live without a partner for the rest of my life? Is that what Allah wants for me?

I’ve recently read the Qur’an and the things that happen to gay people after death has put me into depression. I just don’t see the point in praying anymore when I know I’m going to burn in hell for something Allah has burdened me with.

So my question is, “If Allah forbids homosexuality, then why does he allow people to be born gay?” It’s like we’re guaranteed to go to hell as soon as we’re born. Also, being gay, is it haram for me to marry a woman, or would it be haram for her to marry me?


  1. We know who you are. Wait kor. Ready to be killed. We can not tolerate anything against our islam. Tora mritthur jonno ready thak. Shalar bachara Homo giri koroch. toder gay giri chutamu.

  2. The crime of homosexuality is one of the greatest of crimes, the worst of sins and the most abhorrent of deeds, and Allaah punished those who did it in a way that He did not punish other nations. It is indicative of violation of the fitrah, total misguidance, weak intellect and lack of religious commitment, and it is a sign of doom and deprivation of the mercy of Allaah. We ask Allaah to keep us safe and sound.
    So brother don’t go against islam. you will go to hell for sure.

  3. ছাগল এতা মুসলিম দেশ। এই দেশে এই সব চলবে না। motherfucker bustard. You should leave our country. otherwise be ready to be killed

  4. Ahmad (2915) narrated from Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “May Allaah curse the one who does the action of the people of Loot, may Allaah curse the one who does the action of the people of Loot,” three times. This was classed as hasan by Shu’ayb al-Arna’oot in Tahqeeq al-Musnad.

    The Sahaabah were unanimously agreed on the execution of homosexuals, but they differed as to how they were to be executed. Some of them were of the view that they should be burned with fire, which was the view of ‘Ali (may Allaah be pleased with him) and also of Abu Bakr (may Allaah be pleased with him), as we shall see below. And some of them thought that they should be thrown down from a high place then have stones thrown at them. This was the view of Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him).

  5. Be ready like julhas mannan. toder moto manus prithivite thaka uchit na. noroke toder jayga. You will be slaughtered like julhas and his friend. kuttar baccha. tora amader islam ke omorjada koroch toder pishe fele marte hobe. ready thak. any day any time. So waait. Hope we will be able to establish islam in our country by killing all of atheist.

  6. you should read before publishing post..
    Quran (7:81) – “Will ye commit abomination such as no creature ever did before you?” This verse is part of the previous text and it establishes that homosexuality as different from (and much worse than) adultery or other sexual sin. According to the Arabic grammar, homosexuality is called the worst sin, while references elsewhere describe other forms of non-marital sex as being “among great sins.”

    So there is no place for any homosexuality in our country. Today or Tomorrow our muslim soldier will kill you. bustard !

  7. you bus-turd.if i find you then we will put you in fire.bangladesh is a muslim country.wait and muther fucker.

  8. You can’t do this thing in Bangladesh. Its a muslim country. 90% people are muslim. Please stop this. If i see this activity again in your blog I must kill you.

  9. অবশ্যই ইসলামে homosexuality সম্পূর্ণ হারাম। এবং স্বাভাবিক ব্যভিচারের চেয়েও খারাপ। লুত (আ) এর কওমকে (Sodom আর Gomorrah নগরী) আল্লাহ ধ্বংস করে দিয়েছিলেন যেসব কারণে এর মধ্যে সমকামিতা ছিল একটি। “ইবনে আব্বাস বলেন, অবিবাহিত কাউকে যদি সমকামিতায় পাওয়া যায় তাহলে তাঁকে পাথর মেরে হত্যা করতে হবে।” (আবু দাউদ, 38:4448 )

    Just stop it.


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