Life experiences new additions after marriage. Sometimes we get stumbled with this new life. Takes time to get used to everything new. It is very normal to start fearing this new life. But the point to remember is it is not only you in the whole world who is going through this new experience, there are millions of people maintaining this ritual every day. You can never get frustrated with the new things that is giving you trouble. Follow some rules that are able to make you happy. Nothing is permanent in life. If you find trouble you are the one who can come up with solution.
Express your love thousand times a day
You will continually transform. You’re not the same person since you brought your wife home. And in two years you will not be the same person you are today. Changes will be there, and in that case you have to re-approach each other every day. She eagerly waits to listen love talks from you.
Always appreciate her
Emphasis on what you love, what you care for. What you concentration on will increase. If you focus on what germs you, all you will perceive is causes to be tapped. If you put your attention on what you care for, you definitely will be disbursed by adoration.
Attention to the point where you can no longer see anything other than love, and you know without a hesitation you will feel that you are the luckiest man on earth.
You should not change or fix her
You are there to love her as she is with no expectancy of ever altering. And if she somehow changes herself, love the way how she has become. If you don’t like the way, talk to her freely but do not force.
Take full liability
It is for your own feelings. It’s not your wife’s work to always make you contented, and she is not here to make you sad. You are accountable for discovering your own pleasure, and through that your happiness will tumble into your affiliation and your love.
Never blame your wife if it is your fault
At times you will get upset or angry at her, it is the result of prompting something inside of you. They are your sentiments, and your concern. Sometimes because of ego problem we do not see our own fault, blame others for our own deeds. This is totally unfair. Never blame your wife if it is your fault.
You are fascinated about this woman because she is the person best suitable to elicit all of your juvenile gashes in the tender way so that you could reconcile them. When you settle yourself, you will no longer be actuated by her, and you will surprise why you ever were.
Permit your lady just be herself whenever she feels to be
When she’s miserable or distressed, it’s not your business to repair it, it’s your job to embrace her and let her know everything is going to be OK. Let her know that you hear her, and that she is important to you more than anything.
Stand beside her and tell her that whatever happens you will be by her side. There are problems in life, but she is not alone, you will stay by her through every tough time.
Sometimes you got to be silly
Do not present yourself as a serious guy every. Seriousness doesn’t work every time. Sometimes you got to be laugh and make her laugh. You can throw some silly jokes at times. This may create lameness but that is the feelings you will remember whole life.